Right conditions for health. Relationships and love.
Chiropractic is about creating the right conditions in the body, but right conditions are important in every area of life for health to flourish. O.K. I’m lucky, I know that. I have a wife who is a beautiful person through and through. When we were married (in 1981) I knew it was forever. I told friends that too. They said ‘you can’t say that because you just don’t know what the future holds’, but I knew. Some of the things that make me love her are things like the fact that she took my children to see my grandparents. It was great for my grandparents and great for my children to have met their great grandparents. She is a brilliant daughter in law to my parents too. She is everyone favourite aunty. As a daughter she is amazing. When her father was sick recently and in hospital, she visited and spent time with him almost every day for 9 weeks. It tired her but she kept going. People occasionally ask what our secret is. I can’t answer that because there are a thousand things that make a relationship work. A big thing is to grow together not apart. The direction you grow is a choice. Having healthy relationships is so important to health and critical to your quality of life.
Its healthy to forgive, its healthy to only keep score of the good things the people you love do for you, it’s healthy to focus on the positive, see past the faults of those you love and remember you have the same or worse so don’t judge. Don’t be critical, even playful criticism is destructive, its vital to not only permit but to encourage the people you love be their authentic selves.